Why some homes fail

Selfish people never create happy homes.Their personalities are too immature.A person who is basically selfish has never completely grown up in mind.He is still an undeveloped adolescent,not a mature person.He will always want his own way, regardless of the feelings of others. By his actions he is saying,"I want what I want when I want it"


Such an attitude can never build a truly happy community.Young people should certainly keep this in mind when considering marriage.It is never wise to marry a selfish person,for the chances of changing him or her are slim indeed.That is why so many homes endure only under great stress or eventually break up.People who are willing to go more than half way in solving any problem they may face.

Jealousy has no place in a happy home .A jealous person tends to be insecure.He is never sure of himself.A happy home cannot be build around a person whose feelings are easily injured.Real homes are built around a person whose feelings are easily inured.
Real homes are built on love that endures not on flighty feelings that fade away under the touch of trouble or criticism.

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